“If every action you made had loving intentions, if every
move we made was born of love, the world would be healed, the world
would be whole.” -Brycen R. R. Couture
My Vision for World Peace: Love and Respect All Children
by Brycen R. R. Couture
The first and most obvious thing is that love is the single element
that can heal the world. Most people aren’t sure where to put the love,
how to cultivate it or how to feel it. Allow me to tell you: You need to
start by loving your children.
If you give unconditional and total love, nurturance and meet the
needs of your kids, then they are going to grow up and be able to pass
that on to their kids. The children of today are the entire population of the future world. If everyone
treated their kids with total unconditional love and met all of their
needs, we would have a full world population of people who have been
loved, who have had their needs met and they would believe and trust in
the natural coexistence of all life. How monumental is that?
When I say children, I mean from zero to early 20′s. The needs I
believe children are not getting met in this society are, first and
foremost, from [a lack of] Attachment Parenting. Children are made up of
needs and whatever you put into them. If you meet those needs, then
children are full of met needs and love. If you are putting shame,
hatred, anger, punishment or violence into your children, then they
become full of that negativity. Most of the culture sends children off
to public school- That system is punitive. It is a very solid box into
which we try to stuff these very creative individuals…
One of the worst beliefs that adults have in the mainstream culture
is that if you give kids freedom, they are not going to know how to
handle themselves. “Freedom” is a concept that adults in a sick culture
have concocted. While you are still innocent, freedom is just living,
its not something you obtain or can have or abuse; freedom is just what
life is. It’s constraint that destroys innocence and
restricts life. Constraint can be punishments, school, when your needs
aren’t responded to and other forms of child abuse; those things
constrain freedom, so they also constrain lives.
What matters is love, what doesn’t matter is superficial material
objects such as designer clothing, video games, computers, technology,
TV- Things like that don’t meet needs. Schooling does not meet needs.
School is something that was obsolete ever since it was created and
needs to go. There’s the idea that getting a good job means success.
That is so wrong-minded. What matters is happiness and joyfulness with
your life and doing what you are passionate about and that you love.
Again, the whole love thing- If it has to do with love, its good!
Goodness is love just as love is good. It’s a circular thing. If you
give $100. to a charity because it soothes your conscience that’s not
necessarily out of love. Everyone should cherish the world and the world
will be healed. If you loved your children with irrational abandon, if
you loved all people, the world and yourself, if every action you made
was made with love, the world would be healed. If every action you made
had loving intentions, if every move we made was born of love, the world
would be healed, the world would be whole.